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A few weeks ago a VP at a $100M+ media company hired me to run a Leadership Sprint with her six direct reports. The objective was to accelerate the pace - and quality - of decision-making across her team.

I worked two tracks, sessions with her, and sessions with her leadership team.

On one particular day, the homework was simple: everybody brings one real email or Slack they actually sent to the VP, and as a group, graded it together.

I know that sounds silly, but bear with me.

One person on the team pulled up their comms, and it was mostly excellent.

She laid out a customer service handoff problem, explained why the original plan wouldn't suffice, named the exact actions her team couldn't perform anymore, and proposed the fix, including the follow-up call she was already planning to make it happen.

A complete, finished decision. Signed, sealed, done.

But then she read the last line in the email out loud:

"Let me know if you want to chat through this."

She caught herself in real time, and said to everyone on the Zoom call, “Shit. I do that all the time. I start super strong. I laid it all out. Then I do… that”.

I call this move the soft close.

And once you start seeing it, you can't unsee it.

The soft close looks like deference. It feels like good manners.

Or it feels like being open to additional input, which is inherently a good thing.

But what it actually is, almost always, is the slow, polite transfer of a decision from your team's desk back onto yours, wrapped inside a perfectly reasoned proposal that already contained the answer.

And here's the contrarian part: the teams that do it the most are the ones that genuinely like each other and respect the boss.

Because the team I was working with wasn't dysfunctional — it was quite the opposite.

But they'd mistaken their desire to be aligned for what was really happening underneath: an offloading of cognitive weight for a call they already had the authority, the information, and frankly, the obligation to make.

Now multiply that across your entire company.

If you lead a team and get ten of these a week, some as small as a "want to talk it through?" sign-off, some as big as "how should we redo this campaign?", your inbox becomes a holding pen for choices that were never really yours to make.

And your smartest people quietly train themselves to stop finishing their own decisions.

The U.S. business environment is in the middle of the Great Flattening.

Amazon has cut 30,000 corporate roles since last October. Google has 35% fewer managers running small teams than a year ago. Gartner predicted that 20% of organizations would use AI to flatten their structures by the end of this year.

Translation: the layer that decisions used to escalate to is literally being deleted from the org chart.

And this isn’t just big tech; startups are running the same play from the other direction: staying deliberately tiny, stretching AI instead of adding managers, which means the founder is the only escalation path there is.

Up until now, the soft close was survivable, and you probably didn’t notice it.

Or worst-case, it was annoying, it slowed things down, but there was always more time to catch all the sh*t that got tossed over the fence.

But you have more things than you've ever had to figure out on your own, and absorbing decision traffic that should be completed by your team is a massive freaking tax that you really can't afford

Feeling burnt out and overwhelmed? You may not need a week vacation or a complete team overhaul, you may just need to change some of your team’s communication practices.

Teach your team to swap:

And from your seat, stop answering emails that were already decided.

When something lands in your inbox that feels like a finished call, reply with "Do you NEED my opinion on this?" or "This one's yours, you don't need me to weigh in." Nine times out of ten they'd already made the decision. They just wanted permission to have made it.

Once you start identifying and getting rid of soft closes, two things happen fast.

Decisions speed up, and eventually so does the whole company. And your inbox stops being the place where your team's confidence goes to die.

This is the actual work I do with leadership teams: decision rights, the 5 Levels of Comms, hard conversations, and an accountability system that gets decisions made without you. Eight weeks, your whole leadership team, and I'm opening two spots for the fall.

If you want your Slack channel to stop pinging 24/7 and your inbox to stop being a holding pen for decisions, simply reply to this email and let me know if you have questions.

This post has 19M views and it's actually useful. The best AI engineers don't prompt anymore, they build loops: give the AI a goal, strict success criteria, and a rule for when to quit, then let it rewrite its own work until it clears the bar. Steal the paste-ready template halfway down and skip the Telegram-bot pitch at the end.

Your retention numbers can look great while your acquisition engine quietly dies. This sharp piece breaks down how PMF erodes through ICP drift, mushy roadmaps, and softening messaging, all hidden under healthy metrics. The tactical steal: ask your product, sales, and marketing leads to define your ideal customer separately. If the answers don't match, you've got drift.

I love reading lists but they can still be landmines — half the books you add end up duds. So I downloaded my Goodreads history (last 166 books, with my ratings), fed it to Claude, and had it rank Ryan Holiday's travel books list against my actual taste. It told me what to skip, why, and nailed the two I should buy. Ten minutes, no duds.

Remember, nobody on your team is going to fix the soft close on their own.

It’s up to you.

Forward this to your team, tell them you're guilty of it too (you are), and start ending messages with decisions instead of questions. That's the ideal: a team that closes its own loops is a team you don't have to manage every inch of.

And until next time, thanks for reading.

Jordan